Keeping kids safe from Internet predators

While the Internet is a great tool for children to learn and communicate with friends, it also has a dark side.

Children and teens can become targets for exploitation, crime and harassment. The good news is parents can take a step in the right direction by teaching their children basic Internet safety and monitoring their Internet use.

In addition to the threat of sexual predators, children also may view material on the Web that is violent, harassing or sexual. Additionally, children are curious about sexuality and may seek out and easily find this inappropriate material themselves. Your child could be at risk if he or she:

Spends a lot of time on the Internet and is secretive about his or her computer activities.
Switches screens or turns the monitor off when you approach the computer.
Gets phone calls and/or packages from people you do not know or is making long distance or collect calls.
Is more interested in spending time on the computer than being with friends and has become isolated from your family.

To reduce the risk of your child encountering inappropriate people or material through the Internet:

Keep the computer in a common area of the house where you can easily monitor your child's Internet activities.
Set reasonable rules for Internet use and post the rules near the computer. Some of the rules may include when the computer can be used and for what purposes, the maximum amount of time spent on the computer each day and what to do if your child sees something that makes him or her uncomfortable.
Communicate openly with your child about his or her Internet usage. Spend time with your child while he or she is on the Internet and talk about the benefits and dangers of the Internet. Make sure your child understands that he or she never should give anyone personal information or send digital photos. Your child's e-mail address and screen name never should reveal information such as age, last name and the city in which you reside.
If you are not familiar with computers, take a basic class and spend time learning about the Internet with your child. Find out what type of parental controls are available from your Internet provider.
Maintain access to your child's online account and randomly check his or her e-mail.
Report any disturbing incidents to your local law enforcement, Internet service provider or www.cybertipline.com.

The Internet is a wonderful resource for children. By keeping these safety tips in mind, you can help ensure that your child has the best online experience possible. For more information, visit the Child Abuse Prevention Fund Web site at www.capfund.org and download the "Internet Safety" teaching sheet.